无论你们认识多少年，无论是男闺蜜还是女闺蜜，拥有一个闺蜜并不是一件容易的事。
有的人即使认识了在长时间，他（她）和你待在一起你也不会完全放松得下来，你会尽量掩饰自己的粗鲁，会讲一些得的话，会矜持，会不安。
但是作为你的闺蜜，即使你俩认识不久，即使你们不怎么相像，却觉得互相身上有一种特别的磁力，吸引你忍不住对他放肆，忍不住在他面前暴露出所有的缺点。

也不是很相信星座，但是这么多年习惯性地了解这些

步入正题！！！

在每个人心里，爱情和友情的比重都是不同的，有的人离不开爱情的甜蜜，有的人依赖朋友的关怀。
我个人的观点是，爱情是场赌博，赢了是一辈子，输了就是一阵子，很多人和爱人吵架冷战，再到分手，而朋友确是打不走骂不跑的人。
但并不是让你只选择朋友，爱情是轰轰烈烈的一种强烈撞击人心里的感情，而友情确实细水长流般的安全感。
两个男人爱上同一个女人，大多数不会因为女人绝交，而两个女人爱上同一个男人，百分之九十都会为了这个男人绝交，哪怕这个男人最后并没有跟她们之间的一个人走完一生。

还记得高中时，郭敬明刚把折纸时代拍成电影，各大影院里的人基本都是奔着小时代去的，情侣一对一对的，闺蜜成群结队的，那时的我还沉浸在友谊地久天长的感动里梦游，看着电影，我完全投入百分之二百的感情，一阵哭一阵笑的。
演的什么情节我不记得了，记得最清楚的是坐在我后面的一对情侣，女孩穿着二十多厘米的恨天高，踩在略微倾斜地上，一歪一扭的，看起来一定是个不会穿高跟鞋的女孩子，男孩用力扶着她，也没有任何责怪。没有责怪不会穿高跟鞋的女孩子，没有责怪只为了一场电影隆重出行的女孩子。
这一幕的确暖到我了，一种说不上来的感动。

一组很暖心的图片

更新一则关于友情的英文故事，出乎意料自己竟然看哭了。。。应该很多人听过

Horror gripped the heart of the World War I soldier as he saw his lifelong friend fall in battle. Caught in a trench with continuous gunfire whizzing over his head, the soldierasked his lieutenant , if he might go out into the"No Man's Land"between the trenches to bringhis fallen comrade back.
"You can go," said the lieutenant, "but I don't think it will be worth it. Your friend is probably dead andyou may throw your own life away."The lieutenant's words didn't matter, and the soldier went anyway.
Miraculously he managed to reach his friend, hoisted him onto his shoulder, and brought him back to their company's trench. As the two of them tumbled in together to the bottom of the trench, theofficer checked the wounded soldier, then looked kindly at his friend. "I told you it wouldn't be worth it, "he said. "Your friend is dead, and you are mortally wounded."
"It was worth it, though, sir," the soldier said.
"How do you mean'worth it?'"responded the lieutenant. "Your friend is dead!"
"Yes sir," the private answered."But it was worth it because when I got to him, he was still alive, and Ihad the satisfaction of hearing him say,'Jim, I knew you'd come.'"
Many a time in life, whether a thing is worth doing or not really depends on how you look at it.
Take up all your courage and do something your heart tells you to do so that you may not regret not doing it later inlife.

'Jim, I knew you'd come.'

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