Dear Mrs. Wong,
It’s my great pleasure to read your article The Struggle to Be an All-American Girl. In this article, you mentioned that you hated to learn Chinese and feel sad of being a Chinese. I’m surprised to read that at first and I try to walk into your inner world to understand your thoughts.
As a girl who grows up in America, you are familiar with English and it is understandable that you consider English is more lovely and vivid than Chinese, which is dull and unfathomable. The mode of Chinese education and the teachers in Chinese schools are not satisfactory. Besides, the subjects that you learned in Chinese are impractical. Your mother’s strict way of pushing you to school also make you mad. All these elements that cause you dislike Chinese. In the meantime, speaking English makes you feel proud of being able to keep up with the American society.
I hold the view that even though you are in America for such a long time, it is unwise for you to give up your Mother Tongue--Chinese. No matter how frequently you speak English, it is just a second language and couldn’t give you the sense of national ascription. To some extent, the motivation that drive you to speak English is to blend in with your surroundings. However, it is still belong to another culture.
Your distinct experiences and identity provide you a good opportunity of mastering both languages. Why not try to embrace these two cultures? You can benefit a lot from being proficient in cross-cultural communication.
In a word, I hope you can get rid of the frustrated emotion of being a Chinese and find a balanced state between these two identities.
卢丹丹 Rebecca
It’s my great pleasure to read your article The Struggle to Be an All-American Girl. In this article, you mentioned that you hated to learn Chinese and feel sad of being a Chinese. I’m surprised to read that at first and I try to walk into your inner world to understand your thoughts.
As a girl who grows up in America, you are familiar with English and it is understandable that you consider English is more lovely and vivid than Chinese, which is dull and unfathomable. The mode of Chinese education and the teachers in Chinese schools are not satisfactory. Besides, the subjects that you learned in Chinese are impractical. Your mother’s strict way of pushing you to school also make you mad. All these elements that cause you dislike Chinese. In the meantime, speaking English makes you feel proud of being able to keep up with the American society.
I hold the view that even though you are in America for such a long time, it is unwise for you to give up your Mother Tongue--Chinese. No matter how frequently you speak English, it is just a second language and couldn’t give you the sense of national ascription. To some extent, the motivation that drive you to speak English is to blend in with your surroundings. However, it is still belong to another culture.
Your distinct experiences and identity provide you a good opportunity of mastering both languages. Why not try to embrace these two cultures? You can benefit a lot from being proficient in cross-cultural communication.
In a word, I hope you can get rid of the frustrated emotion of being a Chinese and find a balanced state between these two identities.
卢丹丹 Rebecca