The teacher maintained a quiet dignity in class without being aloof.
为师待人的最高境界吧

The Road Not Taken
by Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing thereHad worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally layIn leaves no step had trodden black.Oh,
I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence，
Two roads diverged in a wood,and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

不论怎样，在极聪明优秀的男子看来，处女面纱下一切都可爱，温柔、淑静、谦恭、端庄，一结合，她完全变样，成了家庭刺玫瑰，深深扎进防卫的手臂，令人肝肠痛裂；在道德的路途上作梗逞凶，或者凭她的色相拖他上邪路，因溺爱受奴役，神志衰退昏昏然干可耻的勾当，毁掉前程，领港者纵然极娴熟，同船有这样的舵手掌舵怎能不覆舟灭顶？
——弥尔顿《斗士参孙》
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一切恋爱或爱情最终的归宿，要么在爱情和婚姻中变得平庸，要么失去爱情和婚姻。

阿拉伯森林中长生不老的仙鸟

Only a masochist could ever fall in love with a narcissist.

あなたわ私のことが好きだ

Need is the miracle that keeps the engines of expansion turning relentlessly. There is no concept for enough, just a chronic yearning for more.

The odour from the flower is gone
Which like thy kisses breathed on me;
The color from the flower is flown
Which glowed of thee and only thee.

For in spite of language, in spite of intelligence and intuition and sympathy, one can never really communicate anything to anybody. The essential substance of every thought and feeling remains incommunicable, locked up in the impenetrable strong-room of the individual soul and body.
Our life is a sentence ofperpetual solitary confinment.
——Aldous Huxley, Sermons in Cats

appearing arrogant while suffering an overwhelming sense of failure (Sydeny Carton)

终于等到你

pedigree 门第

I had just been brought face to face with something I have either forgotten or completely ignored for more than 6 years.