$
\phantom{V=(\langle 2p,m)\quad}2s\phantom{|V|2s\rangle\quad\langle 2s|\quad}2p\quad m=0\phantom{0\rangle\qquad}2p\quad m=0\phantom{\quad}2p\qquad m=-1 \\
V=\left(\begin{array}{cccc}
0 & \langle 2s|V|2p,m=0\rangle & 0 & 0 \\
\langle 2p,m=0|V|2s\rangle & 0 & 0 & 0 \\
0 & 0 & \phantom{\langle 2s|V|2}0\phantom{,m=0} & 0 \\
0 & 0 & 0 & \phantom{\langle 2s|V|2}0\phantom{,m=0}
\end{array}\right)
$
\phantom{V=(\langle 2p,m)\quad}2s\phantom{|V|2s\rangle\quad\langle 2s|\quad}2p\quad m=0\phantom{0\rangle\qquad}2p\quad m=0\phantom{\quad}2p\qquad m=-1 \\
V=\left(\begin{array}{cccc}
0 & \langle 2s|V|2p,m=0\rangle & 0 & 0 \\
\langle 2p,m=0|V|2s\rangle & 0 & 0 & 0 \\
0 & 0 & \phantom{\langle 2s|V|2}0\phantom{,m=0} & 0 \\
0 & 0 & 0 & \phantom{\langle 2s|V|2}0\phantom{,m=0}
\end{array}\right)
$