10大信号表明你已长大成
熟
Maturity is a state when an individual is
in a position to realize what is happening
around him/her, to understand the
rationale behind those happenings and
does not get too elated nor too
depressed by final results. Thus he/she is
in a position to absorb pressures and
remain unperturbed by the situations
around him/her. You can realize you
have now matured by looking for
following signs:
成熟是一种状态，当你突然意识到周围发
生的一切，能够理解这些事情背后的缘
由，不会因结果得意洋洋抑或一蹶不振，
你就成熟了。你已经能够化解压力，不被
周围的环境所干扰。看看下面的信号判断
一下自己成熟没有吧：
1. You listen more and talk less
多听少说
When we realize as human beings we are
built to hear more (because we have two
ears) and speak less (we have one
mouth/tongue); we gain more
information and whatever we speak will
be based on substantial reasoning. This
will provide a glimpse of a thinking
individual/rational person to the
audience. Thus you shall be perceived
more seriously, and in turn this will add
to your confidence. It is the first sign of
you becoming a more matured individual
than what you were before.
当我们意识到作为人，我们需要多听（因
为有两个耳朵）少说（只有一张嘴/一根舌
头），我们就能获得更多的信息，说出的
话也能基于靠谱的推断，这会让听众觉得
这个人很有思想和逻辑性。这样你就会被
认为是个更靠谱正经的人，同时还能增加
自己的自信。这可以当成是你和以前相比
变得成熟的第一个标志。
2. You do not shy away from
responsibilities
你不再羞于承担责任
As individuals we play a variety of roles in
our societal set up. Be it for our family,
our community, our friends, our country
or for the human race in general.
Additionally, we, being the highly
successful species on Earth, should also
be responsible for other species of this
planet, as well as for sustaining the
planet for future life forms. When you
think in these terms, you behave in a
more responsible manner. You not only
perform your duties for your family or
country, you also take care of mother
earth. This makes you a matured
individual on this planet.
作为个人，我们在社交圈里承担着各式各
样的角色，包括家庭、社区，朋友们、国
家甚至于人类这个大圈子。除此之外，我
们作为地球上的最高级生物，也需要对其
他物种负责，为了未来的生命框架保护这
个地球的和谐发展。当你这样去思考问
题，其实也就变得更加负责任了。你不仅
在家庭或国家中承担了你的职责，你还照
顾到了我们的地球母亲。这会让你成为更
加成熟的人。
3. You are less argumentative and more
accommodating
你不再那么好辩
There are times when you think you are
right in an argument but by winning an
argument you may lose a friend. So, it
may be advisable to refrain from arguing
too much at these times. Quite often,
when things are normal, the other
person with whom there was an
argument may realize your point of view,
or it is also possible you understand his/
her perspective better. For, just because
someone is not agreeing to you, does not
mean he/she is wrong. By arguing less,
you are providing the required space and
prestige to others, and at the same time
you are buying more time for yourself to
look at the other’s argument from
another angle. And additionally, you
command more respect from others.
This shows you are now a matured
individual.
有时你会觉得自己在辩论中是正确的，但
如果赢得了辩论可能会失去朋友。所以最
聪明的做法莫过于在此刻避免过多的争
论。更多时候，如果不是什么大事，那个
有自己观点的人也许会了解你的想法，或
者你也可能更好的了解ta的立场。所以，
别人不赞同你，并不代表ta就是错的。少
辩论，也给别人提供了必须的空间和威
望，同时你也能给自己争取更多时间来从
别的角度审视别人的观点。除此之外，你
还能从他人身上获得更多的尊重。这也能
表明你变得更加成熟了。
4. You enjoy each season
你享受每个季节
Most of us have a likening for either
summer or winter or spring or rains.
That’s fine. But there is no need to get
irritated whenever your favorite season
has been replaced by another one. There
is a cycle of seasons and life forms adapt
to that. No one can control seasonal
cycles and no one should control them.
So if you are enjoying changes in season,
however abrupt they might seem, you
have grown into a matured individual.
大部分人都会更喜欢夏天或冬天或春天或
雨季。这个没啥，但自己最爱的季节过去
了也没必要感到恼火。季节的轮替就是这
样，我们生命早已习惯如此。没有人可以
控制季节的循环也不能去控制。所以如果
你很享受季节的变换，不管变得多么突
然，你已经变得更成熟了。
5. You wear a smile on your face
脸上带着微笑
Life is a topsy-turvy event. It doesn’t
matter how hard scientists/researchers
try to predict it, it remains unpredictable.
You plan for today in the morning, and
by the afternoon you have to modify it to
accommodate something unplanned.
Whatever the situation may be, wearing a
smile has a positive impact on your body
and mind. So, if you are being found
mostly with a smile, you should consider
this as a sign of getting matured.
生活总是出其不意的。不管科学家/研究员
多么努力的想去预言，还是无法确切估
计。你早上做了今天的计划，下午有可能
就需要为一些未知事件修改计划。不论情
况如何，都带着微笑，这样能给身体和精
神带来积极的影响。所以，如果你总是带
着微笑，也可以看成是成熟的标志。
6. You love children and elders
你尊老爱幼
Most of us like to hangout with friends.
Most of these friends are of the same age
group. However, if you like to spend time
with children and older people, you
should consider yourself a mature
individual. Quite often, spending time
with people who are not in your age
bracket helps you visualize life in an
entirely different manner. These
moments, later on, shall be counted in
your experiences.
大部分人都喜欢和朋友泡在一起。我们大
多数的朋友都是同龄人。然而，如果你愿
意花时间和小孩老人们在一起，你就成熟
了。大部分时候，花时间和不同年龄段的
人在一起能帮你更好的以全然不同的方式
看待生活。这些时刻，不久之后都会成为
你的阅历。
7. You save more than what you expend
你存的比花的多
This one does not need any detail
exp
往事不必遗憾。若是美好，叫做精彩。 若是糟糕，叫做经历。
--来自太阳
熟
Maturity is a state when an individual is
in a position to realize what is happening
around him/her, to understand the
rationale behind those happenings and
does not get too elated nor too
depressed by final results. Thus he/she is
in a position to absorb pressures and
remain unperturbed by the situations
around him/her. You can realize you
have now matured by looking for
following signs:
成熟是一种状态，当你突然意识到周围发
生的一切，能够理解这些事情背后的缘
由，不会因结果得意洋洋抑或一蹶不振，
你就成熟了。你已经能够化解压力，不被
周围的环境所干扰。看看下面的信号判断
一下自己成熟没有吧：
1. You listen more and talk less
多听少说
When we realize as human beings we are
built to hear more (because we have two
ears) and speak less (we have one
mouth/tongue); we gain more
information and whatever we speak will
be based on substantial reasoning. This
will provide a glimpse of a thinking
individual/rational person to the
audience. Thus you shall be perceived
more seriously, and in turn this will add
to your confidence. It is the first sign of
you becoming a more matured individual
than what you were before.
当我们意识到作为人，我们需要多听（因
为有两个耳朵）少说（只有一张嘴/一根舌
头），我们就能获得更多的信息，说出的
话也能基于靠谱的推断，这会让听众觉得
这个人很有思想和逻辑性。这样你就会被
认为是个更靠谱正经的人，同时还能增加
自己的自信。这可以当成是你和以前相比
变得成熟的第一个标志。
2. You do not shy away from
responsibilities
你不再羞于承担责任
As individuals we play a variety of roles in
our societal set up. Be it for our family,
our community, our friends, our country
or for the human race in general.
Additionally, we, being the highly
successful species on Earth, should also
be responsible for other species of this
planet, as well as for sustaining the
planet for future life forms. When you
think in these terms, you behave in a
more responsible manner. You not only
perform your duties for your family or
country, you also take care of mother
earth. This makes you a matured
individual on this planet.
作为个人，我们在社交圈里承担着各式各
样的角色，包括家庭、社区，朋友们、国
家甚至于人类这个大圈子。除此之外，我
们作为地球上的最高级生物，也需要对其
他物种负责，为了未来的生命框架保护这
个地球的和谐发展。当你这样去思考问
题，其实也就变得更加负责任了。你不仅
在家庭或国家中承担了你的职责，你还照
顾到了我们的地球母亲。这会让你成为更
加成熟的人。
3. You are less argumentative and more
accommodating
你不再那么好辩
There are times when you think you are
right in an argument but by winning an
argument you may lose a friend. So, it
may be advisable to refrain from arguing
too much at these times. Quite often,
when things are normal, the other
person with whom there was an
argument may realize your point of view,
or it is also possible you understand his/
her perspective better. For, just because
someone is not agreeing to you, does not
mean he/she is wrong. By arguing less,
you are providing the required space and
prestige to others, and at the same time
you are buying more time for yourself to
look at the other’s argument from
another angle. And additionally, you
command more respect from others.
This shows you are now a matured
individual.
有时你会觉得自己在辩论中是正确的，但
如果赢得了辩论可能会失去朋友。所以最
聪明的做法莫过于在此刻避免过多的争
论。更多时候，如果不是什么大事，那个
有自己观点的人也许会了解你的想法，或
者你也可能更好的了解ta的立场。所以，
别人不赞同你，并不代表ta就是错的。少
辩论，也给别人提供了必须的空间和威
望，同时你也能给自己争取更多时间来从
别的角度审视别人的观点。除此之外，你
还能从他人身上获得更多的尊重。这也能
表明你变得更加成熟了。
4. You enjoy each season
你享受每个季节
Most of us have a likening for either
summer or winter or spring or rains.
That’s fine. But there is no need to get
irritated whenever your favorite season
has been replaced by another one. There
is a cycle of seasons and life forms adapt
to that. No one can control seasonal
cycles and no one should control them.
So if you are enjoying changes in season,
however abrupt they might seem, you
have grown into a matured individual.
大部分人都会更喜欢夏天或冬天或春天或
雨季。这个没啥，但自己最爱的季节过去
了也没必要感到恼火。季节的轮替就是这
样，我们生命早已习惯如此。没有人可以
控制季节的循环也不能去控制。所以如果
你很享受季节的变换，不管变得多么突
然，你已经变得更成熟了。
5. You wear a smile on your face
脸上带着微笑
Life is a topsy-turvy event. It doesn’t
matter how hard scientists/researchers
try to predict it, it remains unpredictable.
You plan for today in the morning, and
by the afternoon you have to modify it to
accommodate something unplanned.
Whatever the situation may be, wearing a
smile has a positive impact on your body
and mind. So, if you are being found
mostly with a smile, you should consider
this as a sign of getting matured.
生活总是出其不意的。不管科学家/研究员
多么努力的想去预言，还是无法确切估
计。你早上做了今天的计划，下午有可能
就需要为一些未知事件修改计划。不论情
况如何，都带着微笑，这样能给身体和精
神带来积极的影响。所以，如果你总是带
着微笑，也可以看成是成熟的标志。
6. You love children and elders
你尊老爱幼
Most of us like to hangout with friends.
Most of these friends are of the same age
group. However, if you like to spend time
with children and older people, you
should consider yourself a mature
individual. Quite often, spending time
with people who are not in your age
bracket helps you visualize life in an
entirely different manner. These
moments, later on, shall be counted in
your experiences.
大部分人都喜欢和朋友泡在一起。我们大
多数的朋友都是同龄人。然而，如果你愿
意花时间和小孩老人们在一起，你就成熟
了。大部分时候，花时间和不同年龄段的
人在一起能帮你更好的以全然不同的方式
看待生活。这些时刻，不久之后都会成为
你的阅历。
7. You save more than what you expend
你存的比花的多
This one does not need any detail
exp
往事不必遗憾。若是美好，叫做精彩。 若是糟糕，叫做经历。
--来自太阳
