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My opinion about "being HUMBLE"

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ps thread/community is the place I used to and currently consume time at. There is a phenomenon thats kinda "plagues"(yeah, a little negative) this community from time when I joined in it to now, which honestly, I feel uncomfortable with.
When some one posts an artwork or other kind of masterpieces, he/she publically "positions"(puts) himself as "a new", "a guy who knows very limited about photoshop" whereas he exhibited his obviously-good work. For those who give them credits, they either put themselves down or pretend to blame those complimenters for the "sarcasms" toward their works.
I mean, if you really think that your work is a piece of crap, how is that THAT easy for you to have the courage to upload it and show it to all of us?
YEAH RIGHT, as u refuse to other's compliments, u just implicating what they say thats good about you are bullshits, just as saying what they said are bullshits.
"Hey ,good work"
"Dont insult me!" "I hate sarcasm!"
Oh, I feel sorry? I over-estimated you and hurt u by putting sarcasm on u and undermined your self-esteem?
What an EVIL I am!
Wait, or was that what you said: u values such a good work as 'piece of shit' and trying to PUT US DOWN? We are way bad compared with u?


IP属地:美国1楼2014-01-23 00:54回复
    This is NOT humbleness!


    IP属地:美国2楼2014-01-23 00:56
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      hey great work!


      来自Android客户端3楼2014-01-23 01:01
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        Hey good work


        IP属地:江苏4楼2014-01-23 01:04
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          Resume
          A uploaded an foto badly modified with ps.
          B gave some compliments
          A thought they're fake And sarcastic
          ......am I right????,and you're the one with compliments toward A?????????


          来自手机贴吧5楼2014-01-23 01:25
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            网络可以放大人的内心世界,都带着一层面具交流!互相猜吧


            IP属地:安徽来自iPhone客户端8楼2014-01-23 02:30
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              Haha, that wasn't even close to humbleness. When u praise someone like say…"oh, its really nice of u gettin the project done independently!" if that person responds with " don't insult me…", then that's not humbleness, that's vulnerability.


              IP属地:上海来自iPhone客户端9楼2014-01-23 03:19
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                I'm 100% sure this person doesn't hate compliments, in fact, he/she loves praises deep deep in the heart


                IP属地:上海来自iPhone客户端10楼2014-01-23 03:21
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                  @大中华小强
                  I always be cynical. Yet Im still expecting a "thanks" when I give somebody a compliment. Its mutual, interaction: The one receiving credits is also responsible for returning a little "favor" to the one that give credits, giving a grateful feedback.


                  IP属地:美国11楼2014-01-23 11:27
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                    Even though you did a incredible work I somehow appreciate, you DONT deserve a compliment from me. You receive a compliment because I LET YOU TO, just like I help you get up when you fall, I let you "receive" a helping hand to assist you.


                    IP属地:美国12楼2014-01-23 11:35
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