如果我们没有刻意追求的欲望 就不会在意别人的眼色 也不用违心的去讨好 生活自然会轻松很多 所以不要做欲望的奴隶 不然永远静不下来 而且有些人是最善于窥视别人的心思 利用别人的欲望和所求 达到自己不可告人的目的 要想不让这种人牵着自己的鼻子走 就要学会散去心中的不良欲望 无欲则刚 ---加措活佛 If we have no particular desires, we will not careabout other’s opinions, nor will we please others against our will. Life willtherefore be much more relaxed. Do not be a slave to your desires, or you willnever be at peace. Also, there are some who excel at looking into other’sdesires and using them achieve their own goals. Do not let this kind of personpull you by the nose; learn to disperse the desires of your heart. Jia Cuo Rinpoche