I need feminism because people feel sympathy for the guy who cyber bullied, verbally attacked, and harassed me for a date. When rejected, his violent, aggressive behavior was expressed through multiple text messages, attempting to lower my self esteem with derogatory slurs. Instead of questioning why it was okay for a person to behave this way, everyone told me, “he might be a nice guy, give him a chance, it would only be one date, etc.”