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I was one of the only kids in college who had a reason to
go to the P.O. box at the end of the day, and that was mainly because my mother
has never believed in email, in Facebook, in texting or cell phones in general.
And so while other kids were BBM-ing their parents, I was literally waiting by
the mailbox to get a letter from home to see how the weekend had gone, which
was a little frustrating when Grandma was in the hospital, but I was just
looking for some sort of scribble, some unkempt
cursive from my mother.


IP属地:加拿大1楼2013-03-01 11:59回复
    And so when I moved to New York City after college and got
    completely sucker-punched in the face by depression, I did the only thing I
    could think of at the time. I wrote those same kinds of letters that my mother
    had written me for strangers, and tucked them all throughout the city, dozens
    and dozens of them. I left them everywhere, in cafes and in libraries, at the
    U.N., everywhere. I blogged about those letters and the days when they were
    necessary, and I posed a kind of crazy promise to the Internet: that if you
    asked me for a hand-written letter, I would write you one, no questions asked.
    Overnight, my inbox morphed into this harbor of heartbreak -- a single mother
    in Sacramento, a girl being bullied in rural Kansas, all asking me, a 22-year-old
    girl who barely even knew her own coffee order, to write them a love letter and
    give them a reason to wait by the mailbox.


    IP属地:加拿大2楼2013-03-01 11:59
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      Well, today I fuel a global organization that is fueled by
      those trips to the mailbox, fueled by the ways in which we can harness social
      media like never before to write and mail strangers letters when they need them
      most, but most of all, fueled by crates of mail like this one, my trusty mail
      crate, filled with the scriptings of ordinary people, strangers writing letters
      to other strangers not because they're ever going to meet and laugh over a cup
      of coffee, but because they have found one another by way of letter-writing.


      IP属地:加拿大3楼2013-03-01 11:59
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        But, you know, the thing that always gets me about these
        letters is that most of them have been written by people that have never known
        themselves loved on a piece of paper. They could not tell you about the ink of
        their own love letters. They're the ones from my generation, the ones of us
        that have grown up into a world where everything is paperless, and where some of
        our best conversations have happened upon a screen. We have learned to diary
        our pain onto Facebook, and we speak swiftly in 140 characters or less.


        IP属地:加拿大4楼2013-03-01 11:59
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          But what if it's not about efficiency this time? I was on
          the subway yesterday with this mail crate, which is a conversation starter, let
          me tell you. If you ever need one, just carry one of these. (Laughter) And a
          man just stared at me, and he was like, "Well, why don't you use the
          Internet?" And I thought, "Well, sir, I am not a strategist, nor am I
          specialist. I am merely a storyteller." And so I could tell you about a
          woman whose husband has just come home from Afghanistan, and she is having a
          hard time unearthing this thing called conversation, and so she tucks love
          letters throughout the house as a way to say, "Come back to me. Find me
          when you can." Or a girl who decides that she is going to leave love
          letters around her campus in Dubuque, Iowa, only to find her efforts
          ripple-effected the next day when she walks out onto the quad and finds love
          letters hanging from the trees, tucked in the bushes and the benches. Or the
          man who decides that he is going to take his life, uses Facebook as a way to
          say goodbye to friends and family. Well, tonight he sleeps safely with a stack
          of letters just like this one tucked beneath his pillow, scripted by strangers
          who were there for him when.


          IP属地:加拿大5楼2013-03-01 12:00
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