This is quite a story
To my married and unmarried friends:
This is a very touching story, please read it
slowly, ....
When You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your
Arms
On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms.
The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat.
My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car
in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She
was then plump and shy. I was a strong and happy
bridegroom.
This was the scene ten years ago.
The following days were as simple as a cup of pure
water: we had a kid; I went into business and tried
to make more money. When the assets were
steadily increasing, the affection between us
seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every
morning we left home together and got home
almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in
a boarding school.
Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy.
But the calm life was more likely to be affected by
unpredictable changes.
Dew came into my life.
It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony.
Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again
was immersed in her stream of love. This was the
apartment I bought for her.
Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws
girls' eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of
my wife. When we were just married, my wife said,
Men like you, once successful, will be very
attractive to girls.
Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I
knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn't help
doing so.
I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to
select some furniture, O.K.? I've got something to
do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy,
because I had promised to do it together with her.
At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer
in my mind although it used to be something
impossible to me.
However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife
about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to
her, she would be deeply hurt.
Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she
was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting in front of
the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we
watched TV together. Or, I was lounging before the
computer, visualizing Dew's body. This was the
means of my entertainment.
One day I said to her in a slightly joking way,
suppose we divorce, what will you do? She stared
at me for a few seconds without a word.
Apparently she believed that divorce was
something too far away from her. I couldn't imagine
how she would react once she got to know I was
serious.
When my wife went to my office, Dew had just
stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife
with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide
something while talking to her. She seemed to
have got some hint. She gently smiled at my
subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.
Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her,
O.K.? Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I
could not hesitate any more.
When my wife served the last dish, I held her
hand. I've got something to tell you, I said. She sat
down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in
To my married and unmarried friends:
This is a very touching story, please read it
slowly, ....
When You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your
Arms
On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms.
The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat.
My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car
in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She
was then plump and shy. I was a strong and happy
bridegroom.
This was the scene ten years ago.
The following days were as simple as a cup of pure
water: we had a kid; I went into business and tried
to make more money. When the assets were
steadily increasing, the affection between us
seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every
morning we left home together and got home
almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in
a boarding school.
Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy.
But the calm life was more likely to be affected by
unpredictable changes.
Dew came into my life.
It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony.
Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again
was immersed in her stream of love. This was the
apartment I bought for her.
Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws
girls' eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of
my wife. When we were just married, my wife said,
Men like you, once successful, will be very
attractive to girls.
Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I
knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn't help
doing so.
I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to
select some furniture, O.K.? I've got something to
do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy,
because I had promised to do it together with her.
At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer
in my mind although it used to be something
impossible to me.
However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife
about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to
her, she would be deeply hurt.
Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she
was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting in front of
the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we
watched TV together. Or, I was lounging before the
computer, visualizing Dew's body. This was the
means of my entertainment.
One day I said to her in a slightly joking way,
suppose we divorce, what will you do? She stared
at me for a few seconds without a word.
Apparently she believed that divorce was
something too far away from her. I couldn't imagine
how she would react once she got to know I was
serious.
When my wife went to my office, Dew had just
stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife
with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide
something while talking to her. She seemed to
have got some hint. She gently smiled at my
subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.
Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her,
O.K.? Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I
could not hesitate any more.
When my wife served the last dish, I held her
hand. I've got something to tell you, I said. She sat
down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in